"Life is far more like Chess than it is
Checkers, and sadly most people are playing Jacks."
Let us get right Spiritually with GOD first, so that
we may be righteous and operate properly--our Spiritual condition impacts our
mental condition which impacts or emotional condition, and thus dictates what
we can and or cannot handle.
Many of us desire, but are not "equipped" Spiritually
and thus mentally and emotionally for the type of relationship with another we
cry and scream out for so much. We will not find solace, joy, or peace in a
relationship if we and the other participant are not Spiritually mature
yet--put garbage in it, you get garbage out of it.
That is the case with
any relationship--with GOD or another human being.