The word surrender carries for many of us such a negative connotation as it elicits negative thoughts and feelings of failure and or inadequacy, and thus is not something we truly desire. Even from childhood, the memories of surrender, for me, whether it was a game of Cowboys and Indians, Super friends or baseball, I never wanted to be the one nor amongst the group that gave in, conceded defeat, i.e. surrendered. For, it forces the acknowledgement that we could not get the job done, nor done alone.
This is the case with surrendering to Christ, for we must accept, I cannot do it alone, and admit and concede, how much we truly need HIM. In our world that promotes, glamorizes, and in many cases, idolizes the self-made man or woman, the devil attempts to convince us, I can do anything on my own and I need no one. I will be the next great success story, with no assistance from anyone, not even GOD. This, truly is one of the worst lies the devil uses on us to bring about our demise.
True surrender should bring about the acceptance of and elicit joy from the realization; my strength comes from GOD, GOD the Fathers word, Jesus GOD the sons sacrifice and GOD the Holy Spirit’s dwelling within us. Not from relying upon self: our efforts, nor from trusting our thoughts or feelings. Trusting in, relying upon, and obeying GOD, in all situations and circumstances, come what may, is the only way. Equally important is HIS promise HE will never forsake, mislead, nor stop loving us. HE will strengthen us to do all HE has called us to do and will never place upon us more than we can handle without HIM.
Far too many of us have been conditioned to believe the myths of society; we have placed our self worth in our materialistic possessions, or our appearance, and not in who we are called to be in Christ. Our focus is on the next gratifying social activity or thing we can purchase at the mall. Not in service for GOD’S glory, nor daily reading of or application of the bible, and definitely not in prayer seeking GOD’S direction and will for our lives. For if the later alone was the case, many of us would not even be in the occupations we have as they are merely a means to an end; money to purchase that which we want and or pay bills to survive.
When if we knew and believed the word of GOD, “But seek ye first the kingdom of GOD, and HIS righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you.”(Matthew 6:33) If we would only seek GOD, not only would we have a different mindset, subsequent approach to life and the meaning of our existence, walk in obedience filled with the Holy Spirit, we would be abundantly blessed. Not struggling from paycheck to paycheck, determining our self-worth by the barometer of someone else’s bank account statements and possessions, nor seeking approval from certain individuals that GOD does not want in our lives anyway.
Sincere heartfelt confession at the time of surrender and commitment to living accordingly, indefinitely, are mandatory. Yes being human, we shall stray, but we must repent and return to a life void of intentional sin. Full surrender and obedience to Christ our Lord and Savior, and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit are the only way to lifelong spiritual growth in Christ.